“God said to Solomon, ‘Because you have not asked for yourself long life or riches or for the life of your enemies but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, I now do according to your word.’” 1 Kings 3:11-12
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God – what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romana 12:2
A few days ago, talking with friends, we remembered (and laughed) how we dressed to feel on par with our peers – high heels and platform shoes, leisure suits and bell bottoms. At the time it seemed important to be like everyone else, to have what they have.
Meeting societal expectations did not end with wardrobe. Help me get this job, this promotion; let my team win; make me successful, thus happy. I don’t want to appear unwise, but people seem to notice other things first – income, possessions. achievements, appearance. The pull is strong. People notice smart before they notice wise. Smart knows information; wise sees how to use it. Smart knows how to make money; but wise knows how to use it responsibly … which might mean not spending it … or spending it on others. The perception of others is not what God sees.
“Be careful what you ask for; you might get it” the saying goes. But you might not. Success and comfort aren’t bad. To have a home, to have enough to live independently in retirement, to be relatively healthy and mobile are not unreasonable or frivolous requests. God does not work like a mythical genie. Along with understanding what is right, good, acceptable and perfect, we ask God for strength to cope in adversity, faith to trust his presence in our lives, and the courage to act with wisdom and the spiritual gifts he has given us.
Gracious God, “source of every blessing”, every good and perfect gift comes from you. Help us sort through priorities, to understand how you would have us use our many blessings for your glory and for the good of others. Lead us on the path of goodness. Amen
Verla Olson